For once, we will discuss a very serious and endless subject. This is about a being in who many seek perfection. This quest is certainly an illusion act, but yet the protagonists remain conscious about it. Hence a growing frustration when these women face the reality of things. Indeed, the man, human being easy to understand unlike its opposite, knows admirably how to cultivate his difference and go beyond the expectations of women. For better and mostly for worse! Thus, it is fun to try to establish some semblance of draft blacklist of male small defects that make women go crazy. Yes, you love your men, but they have a way to maintain these little quirks that make you feel terrible... Homo basicus comes with some bugs that you are obliged to accept with the whole. Therefore, we will add a list of practical ideas to help you remedy this, as long as your man is not a lost cause ...

1) He doesn't see dirt

This is a special kind of blindness: he doesn't notice the tomato sauce that was left on the worktop, the windows that became opaque, the basket of the cat which is the center of a CIA investigation because of the presence of a new type of biochemical weapon...

-> Recommended intervention: redirect his attention, tirelessly, on those "little details": you are not his maid. Household chores like many other things can be shared.


2) He looks at other women

He tries to be discreet, but even your cat facing the aquarium is more subtle than him.

-> Recommended intervention: start looking at men, so he can see how it feels ...


3) He never answers when you ask him what he thinks

It's a classic. His eyes are vague, his spirit is somewhere else, and if he ever deigns to reply, it is to grumble something incomprehensible or just to say "no".

-> Recommended intervention: do not ask more. Resist at any cost. There are great chances that your silence will make him expose his thoughts. Men often have the spirit of contradiction.


4) He eats like an animal ...

Eating with a horde of hungry hyenas, is exotic, but Animal Planet or Discovery Channel, it's prettier on TV than at the table.

-> Recommended intervention: let him discover the pleasure of enjoying. Show him that you don't consider his voracity as a tribute to your culinary talents.

5) He lacks a bit of tolerance

He finds lamentable your favorite movie, cut the music you listen to before the end of the first song ...

-> Recommended intervention: tell him clearly that you are not forced to have the same tastes, but his eyes and ears must learn to overcome these differences.


6) He brings his office colleagues with him every night

With him come the stupid boss, the incompetent employee and even the new secretary, still single, who is certainly much sexier than he dares to admit.

-> Recommended intervention: try to find both, a fair solution. He can share with you his professional life, but it should not be the only topic of conversation at dinner.


7) He is a tyrant of the remote control

Foot: 3 - Romantic Comedies: 0

-> Recommended intervention: once a week (to start), you decide what to watch, and he is prohibited from complaining


8) He doesn't listen when you talk

His cell phone rings, his team scores a goal, his colleague told him something super funny ... sometimes you have the impression that you may as well try to talk to your TV.

-> Recommended intervention: choose your "communication moments": during the match, no; on Sunday lunch, yes.


9) He dresses elegantly to others and not for you

When you go out together, you're Cinderella with her pumpkin. When you are invited into society, he turns into a prince charming.

-> Recommended intervention: Set up some "elegant" outgoings where you both get dressed beautifully, as when you first met.


You have changed your haircut, you have bought new clothes or shoes. Proud or happy with your appearance, yet your man doesn't notice any change in you. Frustrating, isn't it? Even with a so-called subtle way, it often happens that men don't realize the things unless when they are told clearly. It is still easier to go around the world that to understand the world of a woman: men can explore every beautiful things of the world, women remain an enigma for them. So, take the right path, say the right things at the right time, it's a bit to win the lottery for some men and a history of practice and experience for others.

Obviously the list is long and we can have fun doing the same thing regarding the faults of women. Note that in France, the fault of women that many men can't tolerate or which is cited most frequently is the vulgarity in words, attitudes and way of dressing or applying cosmetics: a direct message to women who do too much to put in value an awkward femininity. Men prefere the natural feminine than women may realize. The fear of not being attractive guides some women to excesses that men hate. The feminine refinement is the absolute dream for a man. Your character must be cheerful, determined and it's always useful to be cultivated... All this without losing an ounce of humility. All is said, you can be the ideal woman in the eyes of men.

So, whatever their background or education is, men are still Neanderthals, therefore a bit macho. But, that's how you love them. They may have one, two or all the defects mentioned, they still spice up the everyday. Without them women would be bored as much as before a B-movie.